A while back I wrote about “why do men cheat”. We all know that not only men do so, but many women also tend to stray away. Lets have a look on the reasons why they do so. This text is for all the fellow men around☺
Not sufficient sex
Do you remember the awesome old days when you could stay up forever, fooling around and having fun? Well, a woman will never forget them. But unfortunately, the responsibility entered the blend and before you knew it, sleep was more important than sex. The thing is, every woman want and need to feel wanted and loved. If you’re not making her feel that way, she could simply seek it elsewhere. To keep that spark alive, treat her as if you just started dating, ask her out on date, send her stimulating e-mails at lunch, and no matter what, don’t let life and its responsibilities get in the way of cuddling, kissing and having sex!
Being the naughty girl
Just as men feel the impulse to spread their wild oats, some women have an inner sex animal just waiting to be unleashed and when the beast escapes from the cage, watch out. This typ of behaviour normally occurs after some sort of positive life change such as weight loss, new job etc. Keep the lines of communication always open and most probably she’ll run to your arms instead of spilling her guts to a stranger in the night.
Lack of self-esteem
Sex can make a women feel sexier but it’s just a temporary self-esteem booster. If your wife or girlfriend has self-esteem issues, it doesn’t mean she will go hunt for another man’s attention, but if she does, don’t blame yourself for it, unless you know it’s your fault. Make sure to always make her feel secure in the relationship because this could help her from straying. Pay attention to her, ask her questions and don’t hold back on compliments — a little flattery goes a long way with women an it does wonders!
Maybe you cheated sexually or maybe you blew your savings in Vegas or got caught in a huge lie, the end result is you did break her trust and, perhaps, her heart. She feels hurt and deceived and wants to hurt you the same way you hurt her. To win back her trust, it’s not enough just to apologize. You now have to show her some actions. We all know that actions speak louder than words.
Lack of intimacy
You need to understand that intimacy doesn’t necessarily mean sex. Intimacy is touching, kissing, cuddling, and communicating. It’s all what makes women feel connected in a relationship. Women crave it, and she could seek it elsewhere if she’s not getting it at home. To develop intimacy, you need to spend quality time together, give her a foot massage, make a romantic dinner for two, a bubble bath, anything that will give her a sense of harmony and confidence.
Women wear many hats in a relationship and carries the burden of many responsibilities: housekeeper, errand-runner, grocery shopper, babysitter, nurse to you and to your kids when needed etc. If she starts feeling more like a maid than a girlfriend/wife, that’s when she could start straying away from you. Make her feel loved and appreciated for all what she is doing, and always remind her that she is the most beautiful woman you ever met.
Sex can become repetitive if you let it be — the same position; the same setting; the same talk, the same begging, the same end and mainly, the same person. An affair is well known to add more of an adventurous feeling on top of spiking the adrenalin rush. You need avoid routine as much as possible. Sweep her away for the weekend, make out at the movies, kiss her for no reason at all, the car back seat is always a good one... Make sure that you always exceed her expectations.
Instead of breaking up with you or asking for divorce, she cheats on you. That way she doesn’t have to deal with the broken relationship, which is much harder to fix. An affair is the easy way out or at least that’s how she thinks it is. This is the main reason you should always make her feel good talking to you. Let her know that together you can overcome any problems. In the case she needs to leave because she have found love somewhere else, then it’s your call to try on retaining her and working it out together or just let her walk away. No matter what your decision is, let her know that she can always count on you to be there for her. This phrase could simply and easily turn things upside down to your advantage.